How many times have you seriously considered pulling the trigger on that dream boudoir shoot before those annoying little thoughts creep up in the back of your mind to stop you from taking the leap? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Literally, every woman who steps into our studio has struggled with this.
Let’s be real, you’ve seen it on Instagram and heard your friends rant a rave about their incredible life-changing boudoir experience and you want that for yourself, right? But then some part of you starts coming up with excuse after excuse. “I need to lose weight first.” “I can't look like that!” “It seems too expensive.” “What if I don’t like the photos?” We’ve heard it all! There’s no shortage of excuses to convince yourself that you’re not worth it. Not worth the investment, not worth the attention, not worth the self-love. Let me stop you right there: You are totally, absolutely, and completely worth it. It's time to celebrate you and put you first. Take this chance to admire yourself; your accomplishments, your struggles, and your beauty. So let’s bust these excuses together so you can have that boudoir shoot you’ve been dreaming of!
Excuse #1: I need to lose weight first:
NO YOU DON’T! Sorry if this is a little aggressive, but please please stop telling yourself this. This is most definitely not a factor when it comes to getting stunning and sexy boudoir photos. Trust me, we’ve had women of every shape and size, and every time they are stunned by how amazing they look. Boudoir is about loving who you are right at this very moment. Even if you are a little insecure about a bit of mom belly or water weight, we’ll expertly pose you and guide you the entire time to hide what you don’t want, while showing you just how naturally beautiful you can be. No body warping necessary, It’s all about angles, lighting, and posing. Trust me, you may be pleasantly surprised by the results. Now this isn’t to say we want to encourage you to stop any sort of weight loss or health journey you’ve started, but don’t feel like you need to hit some magical number before booking your shoot. You are beautiful just as you are right now, and we’ll prove it to you!
Excuse #2: But I’m single and don’t have anyone to share them with…
Do it for you! You don’t need to feel like these are for a special someone to justify doing the photoshoot. Don’t get me wrong, we love the idea of making a spicy little gift for your sweetheart, but boudoir is first and foremost about you. Even the women who book their shoot with the intention of it being a gift for their husband/ wife leave feeling like it was actually a gift for themselves. Your love may enjoy the photos you share with them, but you will cherish them forever.
Excuse #3: I don’t own any ‘sexy’ lingerie.
Want in on a trade secret? You don’t need to! Guess what? There are plenty of everyday options that can be used to create stunning boudoir photos, and the best part is: you probably already have these in your closet. Here are some of my personal favorite lingerie alternatives. Just be sure to bring a cute pair of undies and a matching bra to wear under any of these… or no bra if that's your thing!
Button-down shirt
Booty shorts
Crop top
Silk robe
Off-the-shoulder sweater
Cocktail dress
Cute PJ set
Tank top
Mini Skirt
Just a sheet/ nude
Pro Tip: When you book a shoot with Polaris Boudoir, you’ll get a professional outfit and prep guide to help you on your boudoir journey.
Excuse #4: I would be so nervous and awkward: I’m not confident enough.
Here’s the tea: Every woman who steps into our studio starts out nervous! In fact, I’d be surprised if they weren’t at least a little nervous. Boudoir is a unique combination of vulnerability and strength. You’re worried you’ll feel exposed and uncomfortable the whole time. Even if you are still nervous when you get to the studio, I promise those nerves will fade after the first 20 minutes. I can’t promise you that you won’t feel a little vulnerable at times, but I can promise that it is totally worth it! While we’re on the topic, there’s a certain strength it takes to push past those fears and insecurities and choose to be vulnerable. The trick is to turn your nervous energy into excitement. Remind yourself of all the reasons you really want this, to feel confident and love who you are. Boudoir photography is like a confidence boost on steroids. With each click of the camera, I'm saying, "This is me, take it or leave it!" And let me tell you, it's empowering AF.
Pro tip: Don’t wait around for the confidence to book your boudoir shoot, because that may never come. It takes bravery to book, not confidence. Confidence is what comes when you choose to be brave. So book your boudoir shoot for the confidence you want, not the confidence you have.
Excuse# 5: Pictures of me aren’t worth that much!
Let me start by saying, you are a work of art, and you are worth every penny. Boudoir is more than just a collection of images, it is an affirmation of your self-worth. It's your opportunity to give yourself what you truly deserve; self-love. Boudoir is all about celebrating everything that makes you uniquely you. It's an experience unlike any other. You get to see who you truly are without any boundaries, expectations, or judgment. Boudoir goes beyond a photoshoot. It's a celebration of you. Every struggle, every accomplishment, and every scar. Choosing a boudoir photoshoot is investing in your own worth—it's an opportunity to honor every step of your journey. So, let's pop the champagne and give a toast to you.
Pro tip: Even though the images you’ll get are totally and completely worth it, we understand that it is still a bit of an investment. That’s why we have pricing options to suit every budget and need, along with flexible payment plans.
Hopefully, I’ve cleared the air, and you can stop coming up with lame excuses not to be the bad a$$ queen I know you are!
About the photography team
Hello!
We are Katharina and Michael, a husband and wife boudoir photography team based in Arizona. We specialize in creating unique experiences that showcase our client's personalities and individual stories. Our style is centered around dark and moody with pops of color. We believe that every woman deserves the opportunity to discover just how beautiful and valuable they are. Boudoir truly has the power to change how you see yourself. Every woman has a story to tell, and it is our mission to help bring this to light.
You are worth investing in yourself.
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